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Today, I had a minor outpatient procedure that required sedation. I am not supposed to drive or even be alone for 24 hours. My husband wouldn't take the day off to go with me, and instead of coming home from work, he is at the bar with his coworkers. FML

do i hear divorce?

If not, then at least a big ass fight. Seriously OP, I must wtf at your husband. Is a day with the your spouse so hard? Could have at least spent part of the day with you....

I agree, I hope you're filing as we speak here. I could play devil's advocate and say "You knew what kind of person he was when you married him" but I think a situation like this just calls for what I said first. If you're willing, end it now or be prepared for things like this to happen for the rest of your life.

I hope so. Any man who does something like that is not a man you want to be with.

nope, if he was your boyfriend sure, dump him, but you married him so really youre obligated to at least try to sort this shit out. its not like he cheated on you. YDI for marrying this idiot before you got to know him.

lol.

pigman

Wow are we married to the same man?

Maybe you should get a divorce. Under the circumstances you could have a happier, better life ten years from now if you get out now.

Wow, what a wonderful hubby you have there.

Now that's just low.

You should have told him you were getting breast enhancement, instead of the lap-band. He would have found a way to take the day off work and probably skip going to the bar also.

no.

Ditch him. He's a jerk and I can't imagine him ever being helpful. Even if you love him, you have to think of yourself some too. You should impress upon him that, though unlikely, his selfish carelessness could have killed you (or something, perhaps not killed.)

divorce wow how heartless people. maybe he had to do it for work or he puts in 7 days a week of work and clicks in night time work so that is his only day off. there is always more to the story.

It wasn't even a day off. He had work, then went straight to a bar. Oh and Play has a point. If he works that much, and leaves her home alone, he should probably find a different job, because it's going to send their marriage to the shit.

There might be more to the story, sure . . . but sometimes it's about priorities and he has clearly shown her where she is on that list. FYL. Hope you get better soon and that you find a way to make yourself happier without trash like that

There could be important parts to this that we don't know about. Perhaps it was a leaving drinks for a friend of his that has been booked in for months now? Or perhaps you have been moaning about this "procedure" for such a long time that he just needs a break from your whining for 1 night.

You do not leave your wife who has had surgery earlier in the day to go to a bar. End of story. If it's a friend from out of town, which I doubt, you're just making excuses for this guy, then he probably could've invited the friend over his house so that he could check on his ill wife.

The way I see it, you either deserve it because you married an asshole or you deserve it because you're a whiny bitch that no one wants to spend time with. Sorry.

How dare you! That is the most heartless thing anyone could say. No-one ever willingly marries assholes, they turn into them AFTER you marry them. Obviously you have no empathic ability whatsoever.

You would be surprised how many people marry assholes. Not the ones that TURN INTO assholes, but real true assholes from the start. Some girls love that stuff. Then they complain because they think it's cute at first. But after a while, they get sick of it and just want the guy to change and be sweet for once.

Haha, sounds like my aunt and her son. She thought his douchebaggery was cute when he was little, thought it was adorable when he would mouth off. Now he's a sponge on society who thinks he's a gangsta.

You're right, I have no "empathic" ability. I may have a bit of "empathetic" ability deep down somewhere, but why look?

Someone had a colonoscopy! But on a serious note, you really should have explained that he HAD to be with you after the procedure! Obviously there wasn't much communication!

Ok the way I see it, your husband is a fucking ass hole from hell, or he is just a low life red-neck. Either way you should divorce him, and get with someone who will treat you right, and be there with you, when you need that person the most....but that is just my personla opinion, now I don't know the relationship between you two...all I'm syin is your husband needs to grow the fuck up and think about his fucking whife, instead of thinking about getting drunk and fucking his best friend...oh yea I hate to tell ya but your husband might slighty be gay....

MEN R SUCH PIGZ.

no, every man women chose are "pigz"

Thank you for reminding me why I broke up with my bf. I have no doubt that he would have turned out like this... ugh. Sucks for you though.

Admittedly, my man is at times a pig but he's a good man deep down. He's always been there for me during the tough times, especially the tough times. He's held my hair back when I had food poisoning. He gave me tough love when I was unemployed and acting like a brat. He held me in his arms when I found out I had a form of cancer. He was supportive through the entire process and offered encouragement when I needed it. There are good men out there. It is possible to find real love. You gotta through a lot of jerks b4 you find the right one though.

edit ^ you gotta go through a lot of jerks b4 you find the right one.

sounds like my boyfriend!

He'll be interested in you AFTER the boob job is finished and they are ready to play with. That's why you had it done in the first place, right? I believe that part about the anesthesia making it impossible to drive, but that "being alone" business is your own annoying clinginess that drives your husband to drink.

That's not how alcohol problems develop, and I don't think it's clingy to want someone to keep you company after having surgery.

Um no? I had my wisdom teeth out over the summer and had to be sedated for it. In the outpatient rules it clearly states that when you've been sedated, you must be watched for at least 24hours. I'm pretty sure that's standard.

Books4Me, maybe they are a little more careful these days. Back when I had my wisdom teeth pulled (We had electric light and anesthesia, but not Facebook and ShamWows), there was no such advice given. In those days, they figured if anesthesia killed you, then you were weak and the human race would be stronger without your DNA in the gene pool. On the other hand, it sounds like a great pick-up line, "I can't be alone tonight. . . doctor's orders."

You are a total sophistical rhetorician, you are totally inebriated with the exuberance of your own verbosity, and gifted with an egotistical imagination that can at all times command an interminable and inconsistent series of arguments to malign an opponent and to glorify himself. In more simpler terms so you can understand: You are a total fucking douche-bag!!!! STFU

I'm sure this isn't the first time he was an ass, but you stay with him and even married him. Same with all you other responders. Stop bitching about being with an ass. If you stay with people like that, you deserve what you get.

I agree that it was really douchey for your husband, but it's not necessarily grounds for divorce. If you're willing to divorce your spouse over just about anything, you'll probably be one of those people that have multiple marriages. I don't think anyone really wants that.

So much more for "in sickness and in health". I don't think anyone here is saying she should divorce over ONE incident. However, this guy is very self-centered, and I doubt this is an isolated incident. A marriage is about taking care of each other. If going to a bar is more important than the health and safety of one's spouse, that is a HUGE RED FLAG and I wouldn't doubt if this pattern of extreme disrespect continues from the husband until the wife finally says "divorce".

Oh wow. What a man-biatch. @.@;

Sdedalus is SO RIGHT!

You really think anyone is gonna scroll back to see WTF you're agreeing with? Dream on.

Sounds to me like he's banging someone else....

I hope you had dinner ready for him when he got home, if not, you might get a beat down.

Heh. Maybe he's binging now because he knows that he's gonna be in the doghouse for the next month. On the other hand, if this was elective and he didn't approve, then YDI.

Time to rethink that marriage.

YDI for choosing a douche for a husband. Not to late to correct that mistake though.

Was it an abortion? May be was having trouble dealing with it too.

WHAT A BASTARD!!!!!

I bet his best friend would take the time to help you in your hour of need..

Depends what procedure it was. For example, I wouldn't find someone who'd just had a colonoscopy sexy, and I doubt his friend would either.

Well, you should turdburgers. Someone who has just had a colonoscopy is going to have a super-clean asshole, so if you ever wanted to explore that area, that is your best chance. Also, the sedative leaves you fully conscious, but you are advised that your decision-making ability may be poor. You could really convince the patient to do weird wild stuff.

The ineffable dunce has nothing to say and says it with a liberal embellishment of bad delivery, embroidering it with reasonless vulgarities of attitude, gesture and attire. There never was an impostor so hateful, a blockhead so stupid, a crank so variously and offensively daft. He makes me tired. The verbal excrement spewing out of your mouth has come to the point that only a good ass beating will make it cease.

I highly doubt this is anywhere near the first douche move he's pulled, so I'm gonna go with YDI. Women like you need to wake the fuck up and stop chasing assholes when good guys are all over. You may have even pushed a good guy away for this prick.

Did you talk to him about it beforehand (not the evening before), and schedule it for when he said he'd be free to spend the day with you? Or did you just spring it on him 5 minutes before?

Sounds like you picked a real winner, divorce the loser because he clearly doesn't care that much about you!

Where you in there for an anal bleaching? Gotta keep it clean

that sucks but our husbands mist be related. I had to have a c section with our son and he had taken 2 weeks off to be with me and help me with the new baby since my surgery made some things very difficult but he chose to go fishing with his buddies everyday then got mad at me when I wouldn't take care of his drunk ass when he got home. :) men sometimes suck.

Sounds like Hank Hill.

There's a billion other men out there, go find a better one.

You better start making a pretty good sandwich for when he gets back!

So leave! You are going to get old one day what then? Find someone that cares about you before you are wheelchair bound. Life is to short to be with a person like that. I wouldn't spit on him if he was on fire!!!!

Ive had to walk home and catch a bus Many times after being released from inpatient after a sui attempt or bout with planning suis! Its called the walk of shame! Try and keep healthy and ya wont have no walks of shame!! Umkay!! Soo Ydi!!!!

I wonder if the OP is a whiny drama queen and the husband is fed up with her desperate need for attention.

Thank you. This is exactly what I was thinking. "Minor" outpatient procedure doesn't seem like a take off work occasion, especially if they're tight on money, and even more so if the husband is the sole provider for the couple. Doctor's All the people decrying the husband's actions need to consider his side. Not mentioning exactly what the procedure was is sort of skeptical as well. I'm calling whiny wife. YDI.

Or if shes always bitchin and making fights out of a a grain of sugar!!

There is a reason he is at the bar. It's you. Do you not have a mother or father, friend, or other family member who can come to stay by your side? Your husband took vows to honor you and stay with you, but when you put them on a short leash, keep them in the back yard, and make them sit, they get pretty pissed off and independent.

Ouch thats shitty. I have an ex boyfriend like that.

First of all, I want you to know that I NEVERRRR comment! So this is a big enough deal to me that I simply HAD to comment. YOU DESERVED IT for marrying such a loser/asshole guy.

Wow I hope you NEVERRRRRRRRR comment again. Get your pea brain the hell out of here.

keywords: "minor outpatient procedure". Boo hoo he can't be next to you every time you stub a toe. Nagging bitch.

Ah, the breeze of fresh divorce in the morning! To be serious though, what a retarded fucker that man is...

Dump The MotherFucker Now!

Time to rethink your marriage.

Sounds like my boyfriend but he would be at the casino instead.

maybe he had a hard stressful day at work to pay for your stupid op, & all you did was lay around all day. News flash, its not all about you.

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